May 14, 2019

Amy Cannava

How important is an organization like Safe Space NOVA to the LGBT+ youth community?

“It’s paramount. Not every LGBTQ+ youth feels safe being out at school and others who are may not have found friends who are also within the Community. This can be isolating and stigmatizing for anyone. Pride events which provide access to others who resemble them is instantly welcoming and results in immediate validation and affirmation. “I’m not alone. There’s nothing wrong with me.” It’s empowering, but shouldn’t be a once or twice a year event through things like Pride Festivals and Pride Prom. It needs to be a regular occurrence so that youth aren’t left feeling the ‘up’ of an event followed by the ‘down’ of waiting long periods for another. Safe Space allows kids to be kids in an environment where those around them just get what they are experiencing in a way non-Community members just don’t.”

How important do you think it is to target 14-18 year old range?

“Between the ages of 14-18 youth are seeking independence while being limited in places where they can feel independent while remaining safe and supervised because while they may feel like they’re grown, they’re not. They aren’t old enough to go to clubs and bars but desiring fun and independence and opportunities to have fun and even date others while having few places where they can do so affordably and safely. While they may doubt such, they still need adult role models and can benefit from the mentorship Safe Space NOVA provides.”

What are some of the challenges and roadblocks that you have personally faced with in the LGBT+ community and how do you think Safe Space, Inc. can break down any barriers?

“Most of the roadblocks I have faced are as an adult because I didn’t really date when I was younger. I frequently face opposition in advocating for queer and trans youth about why I am doing so and what my motive is. In truth, I do what I do because I saw an unmet need; I don’t work with queer and trans youth because of my own sexuality and I always question the relevance of such when adults and administrators make it obvious they are doing so. If kids ask, I’ll tell them, but I think I’ve reached the 6^th step in the Coming Out Model in which I’m me and I just happen to be pansexual. I do what I do because it helps kids and kids are validated and affirmed and at times saved by my work. How would anyone pass up an opportunity to change lives? I think Safe Space helps break down barriers because they provide safe and affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ youth without being obtrusive or inquisitive regarding a young person’s gender or sexuality. You are welcome because you want to be there and that means you belong.”

Have you personally dealt with or witnessed someone firsthand deal with the issues in the LGBT+ community that Safe Space NOVA is aiming to prevent (depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, drug abuse, etc.)

“As a School Psychologist I see it all the time. I work with kids who are depressed and anxious and suicidal and substance involved. I work with kids who won’t come to school and others who don’t feel safe doing so. Safe Space encourages kids to be kids while also holding them to high expectations and when given such youth are likely to aspire to them. Just by providing opportunities for kids to participate in activities which create a sense of community they are alleviating some negative thoughts if for only a few hours, but the memories from the events are ones that youth can carry with them on days when they are feeling less than good.”