March 19, 2019

Mr. Reese

How important is an organization like Safe Space NOVA to the LGBT+ youth community? I feel that an organization like Safe Space NOVA is EXTREMELY important to the LGBT+ youth community because there are so many scenarios where the youth of our community are ostracized by either their families or peers, and sometimes both. Having a space that allows one to be exactly who they are and providing support is important for anyone, but that acceptance and support of a youth is paramount to their development and providing structure for their future. Safe Space NOVA and other organizations like it provide the foundation and structure that is sometimes missing in the lives of some of our LGBT+ youth.

How important do you think it is to target the 14-18 year old range? Targeting the 14-18 year old range is again, EXTREMELY important. I can recall being within this age range and at times feeling very alone because I didn’t have anyone around me that I felt truly understood me…beyond that, I didn’t completely understand myself with regard to the mixed emotions as it pertained to these “strange” feelings that I had for other males.

What are some of the challenges and roadblocks that you have personally faced within the LGBT+ community and how do you think Safe Space NOVA can help break down any barriers? I would have to say that the number one challenge/roadblock that I have personally faced was accepting who I am completely. There was a time that I was so confused about dealing with the same gender. There were times that I was in some ways seeking acceptance from the older crowd of LGBT+ community…in some of those times I was taken advantage of either physically or mentally. Attempting to maneuver through that chaotic time of my life, I feel that had there been a Safe Space, I wouldn’t have endured some of the manipulation that I did. While life lessons are important and necessary…a Safe Space in my opinion can help alleviate learning some life lessons the hard way.

Have you personally dealt with or witnessed someone firsthand deal with the issues in the LGBT+ community that Safe Space NOVA is aiming to prevent (depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, drug abuse, etc.)? I’ve personally dealt with anxiety and suicidal ideation. I feel that a lot of my issues stemmed from the fact that I was in my own head while trying to find my way through finding myself. I can’t say that my family and friends weren’t supportive, but growing up in the church there were conversations that simply weren’t had. I experienced moments of feeling like I wasn’t worthy of life because I was conflicted about the feelings within. There were moments that I felt that I may have found an ally within the community, only to be shown different. Feeling deceived and used left me with anxiety and distrust.

My life experiences have led me to appreciate organizations that cater to the younger generation. I’ve seen drugs and depression move some of my friends to suicide attempts, while I’m truly thankful to have these friends still in my life, I can’t help be even more thankful and appreciative for Safe Space NOVA for providing the resources that I personally know are needed in our community.